Default to YES: From Regulation to Reinvention — For Nurses Ready for More

When Answering Life's Questions, "Do Your Own Research" - With Kim Benoy

Juli Reynolds, Nurse Coach Episode 83

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We could have called this episode, "Embrace the Squiggles" on the Journey to Your Extraordinary Self - but went with a great word from our guest, Do your own research"! 

In this episode, we explore the concept of 'defaulting to yes' and the non-linear path to success. Through a candid conversation between the Juli and guest Kim Benoy, we explore all the things about navigating life's uncertainties, embracing change, and finding fulfillment. Kim shares her personal experiences of leaving a long nursing career, the importance of listening to intuition, and the tools she uses such as journaling and essential oils. The discussion highlights the significance of re-evaluating relationships and not being swayed by external expectations. Tune in for an insightful talk on pursuing your extraordinary self and the journey of self-discovery.

You can connect with Kim Benoy here: https://www.midlifewithcourage.com/
Make sure you check out her podcast, Midlife with Courage

00:00 Introduction: The Non-Linear Path to Success

02:02 Embracing the 'Yes' Mentality

02:53 Personal Journey: Finding Contentment

05:12 Navigating Career Changes

08:31 The Power of Intuition and Self-Reflection

09:33 The Messy Middle: Embracing the Journey

11:16 Tools for Personal Growth

14:05 The Importance of Storytelling

23:48 Redefining Success and Relationships

29:38 Conclusion: Living Your Extraordinary Self

Default to YES!  (Your Extraordinary Self)

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Juli Reynolds, BSN, RN is a Board Certified Nurse Coach and Aromatherapist

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